Learning to speak

To speak, you have to address three prongs.

First, you have to do your homework, so you understand situations deeply so you can ask rich and informed questions.

Secondly, you have to build the confidence that your question and opinion is important.

Lastly, you have to move beyond surface level thoughts and observations, and dig deeper to ask questions, first in your head and then out loud, to understand situations and not just make assumptions.  That process of deeper thinking will allow you to move from observing others asking questions to actually asking questions yourself.